I believe you are here because you want to know more about the
way singaporean guys think. :-D The guy you like is an introvert,
it means he needs a little pushing from you. Initiate small chats
with him, be proactive in sharing your experience with him. Slowly,
he'll start to open up and talk to you more. If you want to
know what he's thinking, then you need to make sure that you're in
the same frequency as him... How to be in the same
frequency? You must try to pick up some visual cue... usually guys
at his age tends to get bothered by a few stuffs... usually it
falls into one of the category
1) Money issues
2) Boy-Girl Relationship issues
3) School work Issues (grades, results, peer competitions, etc)
If he's upset, it means something is bothering him. Let him open
up to you by saying "I know I may not able to help you, but if
you trust me, please share with me your problem, I am willing to be
your listening ears". After he done finishing, you MUST NOT
give any comments or suggestion. :) because he needs a listening
ear ONLY!.
Guy paying for everything... Don't mistaken that he's overly
nice or what. It's the culture here to pay for the ladies. It's
kinda like the host-guest relationship where the host pays for
everything... It's our unique culture to host a guest from
oversea... When I go out with my female friends, I tend to give
them treats too.. because it make me look *gentleman*.. haha! :-D
on a lighter note, it's kinda egoistic~
Hi I am Chin Seng, great to see you here. If you need any help
in your schoolwork, please visit http://schoolwork.sgforums.com/.
I am the co-founder and moderator in that forum, so please visit us
with all your school work!!!!! :)
I think taiwan girls have great skin complexion! :-D and US
girls are more daring type. So I guess you are the latter one?
Best Regards,
Chin Seng
Homework Forum Moderator
