Buddha is wise and tells us not to waste our time in endless
debates/sectarianism and topics which does not lead to advancement
in our practise and cultivation.
Originally, I posted this in the IRC #Buddhism Channel's
ChannelForum, but I believe it will be of good to direct us in this
forum also.
I wish ~ Buddhism: Wisdom Bliss ~ can be a forum where people can
cultivate Proper Conversation and motivate each other to
practise.
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Kinds of speech to be avoided by
contemplatives
"Whereas some priests and contemplatives, living off food given in
faith, are addicted to talking about lowly topics such as these --
talking about kings, robbers, ministers of state; armies, alarms,
and battles; food and drink; clothing, furniture, garlands, and
scents; relatives; vehicles; villages, towns, cities, the
countryside; women and heroes; the gossip of the street and the
well; tales of the dead; tales of diversity [philosophical
discussions of the past and future], the creation of the world and
of the sea, and talk of whether things exist or not -- he abstains
from talking about lowly topics such as these. This, too, is part
of his virtue.
"Whereas some priests and contemplatives, living off food given in
faith, are addicted to debates such as these -- 'You understand
this doctrine and discipline? I'm the one who understands this
doctrine and discipline. How could you understand this doctrine and
discipline? You're practicing wrongly. I'm practicing rightly. I'm
being consistent. You're not. What should be said first you said
last. What should be said last you said first. What you took so
long to think out has been refuted. Your doctrine has been
overthrown. You're defeated. Go and try to salvage your doctrine;
extricate yourself if you can!' -- he abstains from debates such as
these. This, too, is part of his virtue."
-- DN 2
Ten wholesome topics of conversation
"There are these ten topics of [proper] conversation. Which ten?
Talk on modesty, on contentment, on seclusion, on non-entanglement,
on arousing persistence, on virtue, on concentration, on
discernment, on release, and on the knowledge & vision of
release. These are the ten topics of conversation. If you were to
engage repeatedly in these ten topics of conversation, you would
outshine even the sun & moon, so mighty, so powerful -- to say
nothing of the wanderers of other sects."
-- AN X.69