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A PRC woman married a Singaporean man but
refused to consummate the marriage.
Furthermore, she took over the double bed for herself and forced
her husband to sleep on the floor.
Seven years ago, a friend showed Mr Liang (hanyu pinyin, 43
years old) a photo of a PRC woman and asked
if he would like to get to know her.
Mr Liang said, “The woman in the photo looked pleasant. As I was
also of marriageable age at the time, I agreed. Subsequently, the
PRC woman specially flew in from Shenyang,
China to meet me. We cohabited for a week before deciding to get
married.”
“After the marriage, she had to fly back and forth between China
and Singapore. One year later, she got her Long Term Visit Pass and
became formally resident in Singapore.”
But after the marriage, she slowly began to reveal her true
colours: she refused to consummate the marriage, and did not get
along well with his family members.
“When she saw the double bed prepared for us by my father, she
got furious and refused to sleep in the same bed with me. As a
result, I had to sleep on the floor and give up the bed to
her.”
After the marriage, his PRC wife also
refused to consummate it, saying that she was infertile.
“I let her have her way as she seems so persistent. Anyway, I
work 12 hours everyday and don’t spend much time at home,” said Mr
Liang.
According to Mr Liang: I often quarrelled with her after
marriage. On January 2007, she filed for a deed of separation. She
look down on me because I only had primary school education and
also a low monthly salary. As for her, she had a university degree.
She often complained that I was a boar with fiery temper, and that
I never spared a thought for her.
She was also the one who suggested to him to move out of his
father’s house to start to small family. They eventually bought a 3
room flat in 2006. After 1 year, she left without a trace, and he
was only informed about it when he received a lawyer’s letter
regarding the deed of separation.
During the separation period:
After 1 year of separation, his wife came to look for him and
requested his help to sign an application for her citizenship. She
was willing to consummate with him. That was the 1st time and
probably the last time which Mr Liang had sex with his ex-wife. He
initially thought that his ex-wife wanted to reconcile with him.
Still harping the thought that his ex-wife would come back to him,
he signed the citizenship application for her. His wife eventually
became a Singapore Citizen in 2009.
According to Mr Liang, she gave birth to a daughter last year,
which obviously wasn’t his. He suspected that she had committed
adultery, which made her wanted to desperately divorce her husband.
She continually refused to admit she had a lover outside.
Lately, the court had approved their divorce and Mr Liang had to
pay 30k sgd as matrimonial fees.
Mr Liang said he loved his ex-wife, he gave her 500 dollars
monthly so that she could attend English lessons. “After she got
her long term visit pass, she started to work in Singapore. She got
a job with over 1k monthly salary and started to rely less on me.
That was also the time when we started to quarrel regularly.”
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梁先生（43岁）告诉记者，在7年前，朋友给他看照片，问他是否愿意与一名中国籍女子交往。
“我看照片中的女子蛮顺眼的，况且自己也到适婚年龄，所以答应和她交往。后来，照片中的女子便特地从中国沈阳飞来新加坡找梁先生，两人同居了1个星期后便决定结婚。
“婚后，她开始往返中国，1年后，她拿到长期居留证，正式在新居留。”
可是，梁先生说，婚后，她慢慢露出真面目、拒绝行房，也和他的家人相处得不愉快。
“当她看见父亲为我们准备的双人床，就大发雷霆，说她不愿意和我同床。结果，我只好睡地上，把床位让给她。”
梁先生说，结婚后，中国妻也以不能生育为理由，拒绝和他发生关系。
“我看她这么坚持，也没有勉强她。而且，我每天工作12小时，在家的时间也不多。” /SIZE
