I think
your boss is perfectly justified.
You’re
over-reacting and certainly think highly of yourself.
You don’t
have to be unfriendly or guarded to the opposite sex who are single
just because you are married.
As long as
you conduct yourself properly and treat the rest with respect, I’m
pretty sure they will not be throwing themselves at you.
If you
think they flirt with you, just say that you are uncomfortable with
their behavior and I’m sure they will get the message.