looking for bffs!!

last SG · 2010-12-28T17:56:39+00:00

chiu simply hab to remind me of "that" thread... Now you simply have to quote Qx and remind me again

krystelle SG

hmmm yeah i still contact my friends after Os but it's not like i'm lacking friends. i just need a best friend. yeah true, actually cannot be forced :( just gotta wait. GOD PLEASE HELP ME FIND MY BFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AYYX SG

慢慢等, 不要喊, 慢慢会来的~~~~

kenn3th SG

Slowly.. my friend, after 2 years in JC, you see how many of those who say will keep in contact with you after Os, do actually still keep in contact.

It's exactly the same context of what happens after primary school. When you all go your different ways, it's hard to catch up with one another - some in poly, some in Jc, some gone overseas

Do i keep in contact with my primary school friends, yes some (a handful)

Do I keep in contact with my secondary school friends, yes, closer ones (a handful)

I do have a friend whom I regard as a best friend. (from sec school) Every mid sem/ sem holiday we will go to ECP to cycle and hang out.

For the past 2 years, without fail. I always fear that we might not have any topics to talk about after so long - it's a real long journey to and fro from the beach.

2 years and counting I suppose.

Askingyouto SG

Go join some sports or activities that you like, at least when you are there, you have people of common interest there also, easier to break the ice, don't have to be too eager about stuff like that, let nature take it's course.

You will never know who would be your best friend only til years down the road and you look around and see who is still beside you.

krystelle SG

awwww thanks. after that i already have a gauge who are my closer friends :) but throughout the past 2 years, even not going out during the mid sem don't you feel that you're drifting apart? and don't you worry that they'll find their own best friends in their own school?

kenn3th SG

sure you will drift apart. It's a natural process isn't it? We each have different modules to learn in school, we have different final year projects, we definitely have different time tables.

I'm in the school of engineering while the other party is in the school of business, I'm in National Cadet Corps while the other party is in Red Cross Youth.

We meet people all the time, we have to communicate with others all the time too. It's definite that we will all meet with someone that we are comfortable with or get along well with isn it.

Yes you will feel uncomfortable cause you two have no common topic, but jealous no.

Should you be jealous about that? -- Unless you have other feelings for that person, like you have fallen for him.

The fact that each of us do still remember about this appointment does say alot about our relationship

Friends for the moment doesn't mean friends for life. You can never be sure they are actually associates or true friends. It has to withstand the test of time.

Askingyouto SG

People do drift apart due to jobs, other commitments - gf, bf, can try to keep in touch occassionally but sometimes have to let go if your efforts are not reciprocated.

Nothing really negative, wish those who drifted well and welcome new ones well also.

lovelyBoii SG

BFF means that you need to be his or her friend or kinda 5 years.. LOL u sure can be friends for 5 years mah?

angel7030 SG

ya, like HDB laws, only after 5 years of living, then you can sell, let me see, i had been with my bf for 3 years plus liao....another 2 years can sell or break away liao...haiz, so long

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