okie, nehru collar doesn't really work I think ....

looks too much like Chairman Mao or Dr Evil, eh ? ....
I actually wore a Nehru collar on the second day of my
wedding!
Look at my Facebook profile pic- that's a Nehru collar.
I tried to wear a white Mandarin-collared shirt underneath, but
then I realized it made me look too much like a priest in
vestments.
In the end I just wore an el cheapo singlet underneath.

If you want to break up the Dr Evil look, pin a flower to one
side of the chest like what I did.