I think you get better adv in Aunt Agony.
Seriously, I think you should know better why you can't get a
local gf or your friends will know better, if they will be honest
with you.
Those items you mentioned is barely scratching the surface and
impossible to tell why you can't find a gf.
Or maybe, you be better off getting a HK girl?
Anyway, since this is to Bear, I'll let him decide if he wants
to answer you or lock this thread.