From what you say. Couple who have problem conceiving would all
ended up in divorce lor.
Before being humanly responsible <-- crap though angel, dono
what you talking, I think we should be responsible for ourselves
and our kids too. If we can't afford to have them, then why should
we have kids?
We can't compare to that hawker who raised 10 kids as that was a
story repeatedly narrated for donkey years already. With the rising
cost now, plus the competition in our education environment, the
effort and money put into raising a single child is a lot. Unless
people are really obsess over kids, I don't see why many would
want.
As Human, we must carry on with our decendent, that is a fact,
if everyone is thinking of hardship and cost of bringing up a kid,
then, we are doom.
We must embrace the fact that having kids of our own is part of
our responsibility and our dream, poor or rich, all are entitled to
have childrens of their own, without them, the youth and the energy
of human shall disappear in the present of middle and old age.
It is not a matter of can or cannot afford, it is a matter of
want or dun want, as said, a man will be truly mature if he becomes
a father and a girl shall be a full woman once she is a mother. No
matter rich or poor, once they have kids, responsibility shall
bring a man to his best and in return he gets the joy of a child of
his own.
Go and give birth more, have decendent, for the men shalt plough
the field from day to nite and the women shall serve them and bear
children for them in pain..go..my ah jesus said