can't you tell them to go settle their own affairs?
seems like damned childish...
the only thing i wanna be involved in is eating during the
wedding dinner.
for now i managed to taichi the issue away
i told her that he hasn't decided what to buy so he might like
another guitar by year end
for him, i've been telling him to NOT buy any guitars until the
band plays properly! 
we went to check out the christian pub place at the singaproe
fryer... apparently we don't have any songs in our list that
qualifies playing there. hahahahahaha~
so we have to come up with a list with more bubblegum kinda
rock... like beatles.