Does a woman like Oshin exist in 2008?

Catknight SG

Hi guys,

My mum is a taking care of a six year old girl and she is quite spoilt always wants to have her way like a princess..are parents nowadays pampered their child too much unlike our grandparents time?

So does a humble girl like OSHIN growing up to a wealthy businesswoman who took care and love her family still exist?

the Bear SG

ahahaha..

but to answer your question, yes..

just that we don't know about them..

Catknight SG

Thanks this gives me some hope that the girls in modern world still can take sufferings to be a good wife and mother and career woman not easy neh Oshin style!

Gackt247 SG

OMG!! Oshin!! I saw the show when i was a little kid la. It was a very nice heartwarming and wrenching drama.

Patrik SG

Princess.

LOL

Doesnt every girl think she is a princess?

And every guy a prince?

Catknight SG

Oh yes oshin the girl suffered so much ..sigh..how many of six year old girls can work in a large household and kenna scolded daily

the Bear SG

thing is: this is the 21st century...

and marriage.. heck! even any relationship is a 2-way street.. you get what you give...

you just want to sponge off her, she'll kick your ass out on the street..

Catknight SG

Little Oshin can't go to school cause she needs to work as babysitter, so many children in Sg complain heavy schoolbag and too much homework....oshin go!

av98m SG

WTF?

Ferret SG

yes, but they might wanna stay far far away from you...

the Bear SG

6-year old worker these days gets the "employer" thrown in the slammer

Xcert SG

Hi guys,

My mum is a taking care of a six year old girl and she is quite spoilt always wants to have her way like a princess..are parents nowadays pampered their child too much unlike our grandparents time?

So does a humble girl like OSHIN growing up to a wealthy businesswoman who took care and love her family still exist?

in singapore at least...I dont think so...

if U manage to find one anywhere in the world...its more than a needle in a haystack...its a gem.

Gackt247 SG

No wonder lately i so starry-eyed.

the Bear SG

in singapore at least...I dont think so...

if U manage to find one anywhere in the world...its more than a needle in a haystack...its a gem.

there are such good women.. only they're a shitload smarter than the stupid woman in the series who suffered needlessly and for no reason other than she's dumb as hell...

sorry.. i'm just being practical.. when i watched an episode of this series, i was appalled by how stupid the girl was... and that every person who was "bad" in there would have their ass thrown in the slammer in modern times for abuse...

that being said, there are good women.. everywhere.. just that the cynicism of a lot of men will cause them to be unable to "find them"

but the actual fact is that these women are lots lots LOTS smarter and will avoid the cynical and sociopathic men like the plague

xavier1979 SG

I believe there is.

OH-FF SG

I know a few . Juz that they may be too simple than Enterprising. Perseverance is not the only key to success nowadays.

At least nowadays it takes more than perseverance to keep the basic marriage intact.

elindra SG

Thanks this gives me some hope that the girls in modern world still can take sufferings to be a good wife and mother and career woman not easy neh Oshin style!

You never read the papers ar

The guy who is a compulsive gambler who said everyone abandoned him except for his wife

And why is it you have the mentality that for a woman to be good, they must be a good wife and mother and career woman and must be able to take hardship

There are and usually they are wife of some rags to riches CEO who are equally able as them

Xcert SG

there are such good women.. only they're a shitload smarter than the stupid woman in the series who suffered needlessly and for no reason other than she's dumb as hell...

that being said, there are good women.. everywhere.. just that the cynicism of a lot of men will cause them to be unable to "find them"

but the actual fact is that these women are lots lots LOTS smarter and will avoid the cynical and sociopathic men like the plague

err...OK....so maybe I am not seeing the "correct" women...

mistyblue SG

Hai for a story.... this "friend" of muine did not believe in all that fortune telling or feng shui. So one day i got him to a crystal shop cause he stupidly think crystal is cheap and he wanted to impress a girl to become his girl. Then he ask the shop owner to "count his fortunes". Shop owner said he is a person with luck and yet he choose not to see it. He is quick tempered and often over little things. He complains about lack of love luck but actually many a times, he has a lot of ladies around him and yet he is so choosy about them." Finally the shop owner tells him that as he is choosy about others, the girls are also choosing him.

Many people don't see the blessings right in front of their noses. Complains, whining and etc about what no longer exists creates so much negativity around them that good things also avoid them.

tare SG

thr are women who are willing to suffer hardship for and with their loved ones... just tat we ain't tat stupid to suffer unreasonably in silence...