recommender is in Microsoft Encarta but not recommendee
rec·om·mend
(past and past participle rec·om·mend·ed, present participle
rec·om·mend·ing, 3rd person present singular rec·om·mends)
transitive verb
[14th century. < medieval Latin recommendare "commit thoroughly"
< Latin commendare "entrust completely"]
-rec·om·mend·a·ble, , adjective
-rec·om·men·da·to·ry, , adjective
-rec·om·mend·er, , noun
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