Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:
let's say a girl wants to get to know a guy better
BUT she isn't sure whether she does like him or not
so doesn't want to give him the impression that she LIKES him
just interested to get to know him more
What strategies can she use to Get to Know Him?
Friends and I were talking about this. We came up with a few
cliched, boring ones like
[b]Extra Movie Ticket
Strategy
Discuss latest movies with him. Tell him you got extra movie ticket
(how hah?). Maybe with small group of friends 'easier' to
facilitate conversation.
Badminton
Strategy
For sporty girls (needs friends' support)
Tell him one of your friends backed out from a badminton game..
now.. only 3 missing 1. Ask him want to go play or not?
[/b]
The extra movie ticket is nice, but may not be effective towards
guys who know of such trick. BUT chances are he still accept it.
The badminton part hor, no need 3 miss 1. Dats for mahjong.
Badminton can be played by 8 ppl in 1 court so juz ask wanna join
in or not.
Best is to know what the guy likes then work towards it.
Say: he likes soccer. Doesn't matter which club he likes. IF you
like football too (no need so much but enough), then you can ask
him can accompany you to those jersey stores so you can find a
particular club or country jersey to buy.
Or maybe he likes comics. You ask him to intro you some comics to
read loh. Buy or borrow from him, up to you. 
Maybe he likes music alot. You get the idea how to go about it.
