To be frank, several months ago another girl confessed to me
that she had a crush on me. 
However, I didn't want to rush into a relationship with her as I
didn't quite share the same feelings as she did. Besides, she had
broken up with her ex-boyfriend not too long before and felt that
she might still be feeling fragile and broken over it.
Eventually, my feelings for her did grow. Unfortunately, she
decided that she didn't want me. She said that she feared that I
would end up like her ex-boyfriend...... cheating, abusive, etc.
This even though she said that she knew that I would not descend to
such depths.
Oh well. Some said that I should have just gone for the
relationship at the very first opportunity, but I think that if I
had done that, it would have ended up in tears. The way I see it,
if the feelings are not there, then you shouldn't be rushing into a
relationship.
Still, it felt pretty good at the time to know that someone
actually did pine for me. 