elindra SG Starting this topic because I'm bored Just wondering if you guys have a preference for either gender if you have a child. Just be honest here Personally, I would prefer a girl because I can dress her up like a doll and I think that girls tend to be closer to the parents whereas sons tend to pay more attention to his wife and family once he gets married SO prefers a boy not because of the olden idea of 'carrying on the family name' but because he says he will be less worried and he doesn't think that he can handle the idea of a guy touching his little girl when he grows up
jam on a bread SG I heard that guys are closer to the mum..hence mummy's boy Girls tend to be more independent I guess..nowadays..the in thing is to have girls
FireIce SG if 1 only, i want boy if 2 then one boy one ger but this kinda thing cannot control one lah.... and i will not try to find out the gender of the child during pregnancy i oni want to know when it pops out
av98m SG I prefer girls and do not want boys. Not in Singapore anyway, because I do not want my children to serve national service.
sohguanh SG For info unless the baby very eager to come out else pop out require the mother to push hard and the opening open big enuff
choco B SG Boy for first child. Because even though family and husband claim either is fine, I'll bet there will be some smartas$ somewhere asking me to try again
elindra SG From a family where kids are practically all girls ....actually I only have nieces ...all 6 of them and no nephews and even for my generation there are like 3 guys vs 10 girls they really have no grounds to ask On my SO's side, he don't give a rat's a$$ about his relatives and he never meets them anyway (not even for X'mas cos he doesn't like any of them) and his parents don't care as long as it is a grandchild I know his mum wants one really badly but she never ask me but put pressure on my SO as for my parents they don't bother me at all
