traditional style
we spent the time folding paper money, learn about Chinese customs,
participated in 'sai gong', walked with our cousins around the
village we lived when young, ate ice cream, watched world cup,
catched up with relatives, having fun, eating nasi lemak for
breakfast till having green beans soup for supper
it was touching and learning experience for me too, my aunts
group-hugged and sang Shi Shang Zhi You Mama Hao to my grandma, my
cousins gathered and sang hymns to my grandma besides her coffin at
night when everyone else turned in, one cousin kept vigil beside my
grandma's coffin, another showed us how to visit the crematorium
next time when we visit, i dont know of anyone who doest try to put
his or her best for my grandma
i was not scrawny, but damn, i was not fat before..now growing
'plumper' coz my hometown food is still the best grub i have
eaten
