Eh, you sound very tired leh. What have you been doing?

I know what you mean regarding your para 2. I kena also.
I
was going to give hubby a surprised Big 50 birthday. Run around
getting a special cake from a hotel, arrange for balloons and
centre piece. Went to party place, buy all those Big 50 stuff. Came
home, decorate the house. So happy, awaiting his return.
When he came home and see the balloons and decor? He got angry and
gave me sh1t. Oh, I was torn to pieces. You don't know my heart
ache. But with every bad thing, comes good things too. We both
learn from this incident. I learn to respect his wishes that he
doesn't like all these frills and he, in return, allows me to do
small stuff. So, there you go.....we made up! And live happily ever
after.
Hee hee...........