Gazelle SG most women will deny the fact that they dont married down, however statistic shows that grad women would prefer to marry man who have at least equal or higher qualification.
gentlerock SG Who cares about statistics, trends, ego, etc? If a rich woman I've just met tells me "marry me now and you can retire tomorrow as I'll support you for life", I'll say "I do" without thinking twice! Imagine this: No more monthly reports to write, no more shouting matches at the end of the year with your boss to agree to next year's budget, no more hard doctoring of accounts to show that you're broken even for the year, etc etc....
_Aaron_ SG I seirously think that the Women's Charter is flawed. I quote the judge who ordered the husband to pay alimony to the wife even though she was the one who cheated. Can we say, in this situation, that its the husband's fault? No.. you really can't. Is it the wife's fault? Yes. But why is the wife being granted money? Because the rules of the Women's charter says so... and some other family law statutes... These laws are used to protect women in the 1800+ up to 1950+ when women were the weaker race and were being abused by their husbands... Now yes, there are still abuses, but i believe there are more independent women who earns more than their counterparts.. But the law still stands, the Women's charter is still protecting the women, just that half of them don't need protection anymore. I always lamented on this fact, but there's really nothing i can do about it.. bah. In many ways women are no longer inferior. They are superior to the males now.. And its sad..
The Emperor SG Feminism existed because of Man's failure of being the Man they are! If man were to be more responsible, strong and courageous in a right way, feminism wouldn't have existed. It is due to man's abusive character and undecisive decadant nature that he has fallen short of his own former glory. As man, we are called to be the leaders and the directors of the mainstream. Women are called to be the subordinates and followers. They are made originally to be submissive to man. But man, being abusive as they eventually became, started to abuse their authority and also became irresponsible. Because man became so immature, the women have no choice but to rise up and dominate the society. This is all largely to be blamed on the man's side. Ask any women in the world and they'll tell you that man should bark up and be a real man.
thinkdifferent SG I have read the original post and the replies and I am disgusted and more. It's not easy to bring me out of the balance but that thread with the replies has done it. It's better when I don't comment it, that way I don't offend anyone. Damn, I should take it even less seriously.
gentlerock SG Take it easy lah, friend. In fact, take it as seriously as I did (read my posts in this thread) and you'll be fine.
boy in blues SG hear hear! it takes a man to admit one's failings and strive to improve instead of making up excuses and looking even more shameless and cowardly.......
Mephistopheles SG lol..... u trying to suck up to the women ah.... sneaky fellow eh.... what i can deduce from all this feminism and stuff is that some woman (not all) just hate our (as in all man) guts... and these woman are mainly of higher stature... because they have reached the status of power they are in... they might feel that "wats the big deal about having men in my high position.. women can do just fine..." hence... all this shit happened... I say... we should all live and let live... no hate... Peace guys and gals... anyway... we still might need each other for reproduction... (pray no new technology would replace us men....)....
littlestream SG kekekeeee.........alamak.....you don't know, elindra. when i first chance upon this forum right? being new not only to the forum but to forum, period, i also kena this npnt thingy wor. worst still. i thought if you agree with somebody, you do a +1. then, like ya ya like that, go around +1 here and there, thinking that i am in agreement with the post. sekali mana chai, it actually meant boh liao. pai seh man.
Kan_i SG oh damn it... is there a second test i could do? btw shall i call yo Master Gentlerock from now on?
Gazelle SG I must admit that many singaporean guys make their first major mistake by dating and marrying their high school sweet heart. The problem is that mans born in the 70s are sometime too Sua Ku to know that a women's peak is in her late teens and early twenties, and that also happens to be the time when man need to do their NS. However I think sg man, like any singaporeans women, are getting smarter liao, more and more 30 something man, with stable career and 5C are dating 18 year old girl and vice versa. Didnt you people read the article on sunday times?
Gazelle SG The bottom line is the harder a man gets, the more the women get. No? Human are still human no matter how educated you are, there is always something call sexual needs