oh, poor Fatum. yeah, that was a racist remark by your
neighbour!!! if we really do go home, then canada will sink into a
recession. 
anyways, i hope you can come up with a solution or resolution. stay
sane and cheerful, nonetheless eh?
i was actually telling my son how i can feel for your parents if
like my child is away and then falls ill. no one to jaga. anyways,
we are survivors. just that, parents, no matter what, heart sure
pain one lah.
take care, fatum, i'm logging off soon. eyes getting tired and
don't want to push it even though the new antibiotic is
working.
cheer up.