a sad topic with humour

last SG · 2006-01-18T02:36:14+00:00

oohhh..i did it over sms..last time no mms yet,cannot send my toilet roll over..

Kan_i SG

Laughing

Piano Man by Billy Joel
Yes, theyre sharing a drink they call loneliness
But its better than drinkin alone

Kan_i SG

Rhonda i agree with you... people who are hurt by the process are not weak. It is true that you will hurt for a long time to come and every time you see two people together you long for that half that has gone from your life. However I do not beliee that the person was "your soulmate". I consider soulmate mutuals, clearly to lose someone you have spent many a years with is awful to say the least.

But its amazing how quickly you get over a person when you finaly meet someone better Laughing

Just give new people in your "new" life a chance. For fear of getting hurt will mean you will never allow someone else close to you, and that will be a tragedy.

Angel SG

Just read thru 1st page, scan thru 2nd page.

Even though its meant to be a humourous topic... I dont know if I should laugh or cry.

Heartzzz SG

Hmm....This is a veri interesting topic....Read the replies and some r very true...Some veri funni also...ha

Haizz...A person can fall for a person easily, but a person can take dunno how damn long to forget a person.....

Although u noe that person is far from perfect, u still want to be with him/her and accept their flaws, hoping to change them into better persons....Maybe thats juz plain stupidity on my side when the other party doens't even want to care a bit...

Life never stops for anyone or anything....No one will cry for you if you lose someone dear to you...Its not how you fall, its how you get up after a fall.... Wink

thinkdifferent SG

I am exactly in that situation, already for months... I use the humour to hide the sadness. But I also carry on and think positive, I don't want to miss anything from my life because of my sadness. And here it goes... you all made me to reveal what I didn't want to reveal in the forum. And I wouldn't like to tell more about it.

As for my friend, I know how to support her because I exactly know how she feels.

Gedanken SG

OK, it's late on Friday night and to be candid I've skimmed through most of the posts here at best.

However, by the halfway point through the thread starter one point sticks out: what the hell makes anyone think that "happy" means giggling like an idiot?

Get a dictionary, get an understanding of the deeper implications of the word "happy" and get a grip. Rolling Eyes

thinkdifferent SG

My thread was simply meant to be a parody, not to start a serious discussion about relationships. Else I would have posted it in the aunt agony as I already said. I think it is important to be able to laugh, smile and think positive also in hard times. And I wouldn't be so disgusting and insensitive to make a parody if someone would die.

Nurofen SG

I think women should stop thinking like victims and start victimising men Laughing

Gedanken SG

So that was supposed to be a Kaufman/Allen kinda thing?

thinkdifferent SG

Hang me, drown me, quarter me, I deserve it for thinking differently.

Gedanken SG

As if insipid banality deserves such effort. You don't think differently - ignorance and shallowness, after all, are hardly original. Rolling Eyes

thinkdifferent SG

Do you think it is right to make a fast and final judgement of someone without knowing that person and talking to that person? And making the person down?

Gedanken SG

That would be a matter of dealing with the issue of “should”, which is a waste of time. Deal with what is – it’s more productive.

thinkdifferent SG

I see. I won't go deeper into it, but your words mean that you have admitted something.

Gedanken SG

My words mean that your initial post simply demonstrated a shallow and naive interpretation of happiness - the evidence is there and it is therefore what is. Whether I am right in "making that person down" (do you mean "putting that person down"?) is too silly an issue to consider.

Admission, for your information, implies guilt, which, rest assured, is in no way present on my part here.

Do you need me to draw that in crayon for you?

thinkdifferent SG

It's ok, don't bother. I feel guilty I got provoked by you. I want to step back from the comments between you and me as it leads to something what isn't nice and I want to apologize to all for this.

Gedanken SG

Now THERE's an admission - see? Mr. Green

Gedanken SG

Oh, by the way, it still doesn’t change the fact that your definition of “happy” is still very Sesame Street.

Kan_i SG

Excuse me gentle follks of this thread... there is no need to get personal with the attacks... having said that... let me say this

When you are correcting someones diction and grammar it is going waaayyy too far. You yourself have stepped beyond the "shallowness" you have accused. This is not an english test so if you have problems with peoples post in terms of diction and grammar.. go read a book.

Anyways I apologise for misreading the post as more than just banter, however as you have read not many people here believe that it is a light topic. Well I hope that we all have gained from shared experience here.
Happiness is how you feel, no one can tell you what you should do to make yourself happy.

elindra SG

PInky Bear lumbers in and plops on the floor, eating popcorn and waiting for the show to start Laughing

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