no.. as a parent, you can do your utmost to instill in your
children a set of values which will guide them through the darkness
of the world, and come through shining 
it is not a simple thing to do... but as a parent, it is imperative
that you do it... coz hey! you brought her into this world.. give
her the best values and moral fibre a parent can give to her... and
she'll grow up fine no matter what society is like..
to let society dictate how she grows up, is a cop-out
