Actually Shinta, I think the most important thing is to feel
confident about how you look than what people think. I have a
friend who is erhmm...well on the plump side but she is confident
about what she wears and she does dress sexily as well as wearing
tight fitting clothes. Thing is, yes, you can say that she is fat,
but you can't say that she looks ugly in the clothes coz she
carries them with confidence and after a while, you start to think
she looks ok in the clothes she selects 
