it isn't about anything here.. there was a commotion.. i kept my
word because i am like that... even if the whole world doesn't
believe me, i will not back down..
it was a screwup in my life that i backed down too much then..
maybe it's all good coz it made me who i am now..
and we learn, and we grow... and become closer to that ideal person
we all should aspire to be 
goodness knows most of us will never reach that ideal.. but it is
good to try isn't it?
in another thread in this forum, someone was asking.. maybe,
letting go is part of love? i say it is.. and i wonder sometimes,
for i see when people seek help, there are some who are broken
hearted, or angry, or felt betrayed because they have been "let
go"... even if they had no intention of being with their former
partner, they feel betrayed...
but i talk too much.. sometimes we have to let things go.. for
everyone's sake... even if it hurts the other side, even if it
hurts ourselves.. holding on to broken shards only leads to more
bleeding, and we may never heal if we keep cradling that broken
heart of glass