nightdreams and daymares...
falling in love with a dream, may cloud your eyes in such that love
truly becomes blind... and when the honeymoon is over, you are
still in love with a dream and not with the real person you have
walking beside you..
and that daydream of a "dream partner" becomes a nightmare...
don't cloud your emotions and better judgement with thoughts of
falling and being in love with a dream...
have no criteria, have no prerequisites....
in that way, when someone you can love and love you back with
interest comes along, you will not be pursuing an illusion, and
living in a delusion...
and you will be able to see that person for what that person is,
and not be hampered by impossible demands that only exist in a
faerie tale 
