Fatal Attraction - Why bad girls / men are so attractive!

last SG · 2005-09-12T11:58:22+00:00

That's true because we don't get blinded by the girl's beauty and 'cutesy' ways - we can see through the pretence and the 'fake-ness' of it.

charlize SG

Sorry, I only like bad, nasty guys.

Good guys suck.

And I don't mean it in a sexual way. Laughing

Fatum SG

now we all know why both nice people of both sexes are destined to suffer pain and heartbreaks ...... haizzzz ........ Neutral

BadzMaro SG

[quote]Originally posted by charlize:

Sorry, I only like bad, nasty guys.

Good guys suck.

And I don't mean it in a sexual way.[/quot

Yup..its girls like you make me able to 1 leg step 2 boats. he he he.. n when i cant take on other more bad boys.. i give my girl a slap or two.. coz she will love me to the end of days. She goes ? there will always be others to replace this void.More will come to me.. Mr. Green Life of the Bad Boy.. Cool

charlize SG

Life's a Bitch.

Yeah. Laughing

BadzMaro SG

L O S E R S Laughing

charlize SG

Originally posted by BadzMaro:
[quote]Originally posted by charlize:
[b]

Sorry, I only like bad, nasty guys.

Good guys suck.

And I don't mean it in a sexual way.[/quot

Yup..its girls like you make me able to 1 leg step 2 boats. he he he.. n when i cant take on other more bad boys.. i give my girl a slap or two.. coz she will love me to the end of days. She goes ? there will always be others to replace this void.More will come to me.. Mr. Green Life of the Bad Boy.. Cool [/b]

You're the Fucking loser.

Raising your hands to slap a woman.

Now everybody in the forum knows what kind of Shit you are. Laughing

choco B SG

S'not too bad lah. Just make sure you find a nice girl who appreciates your niceness.

BadzMaro SG

well.. her face got in the way.. Laughing the forum is where u create an alternate identity. No one will ever really know who you really are. Anyone can be lying about everything. You either choose to believe or not. The rewards workds both ways.

ShrodingersCat SG

aiya.. it isnt bad girls/men that are attractive, its just that good girls/men are overrated!

I know this guy.. absolutely GORGEOUS, actually stopped me gawping in mid-sentence in the middle of class when he sat next to me. (and I am not talking abt secondary school.. I am talking abt PT nite classes taken when I am working..) and at first I was like.. WAA so handsome..

later after talking to him, and actually hanging out, going out for kopi, went overseas with a group of friends together... I also felt he is a nice, earnest, sweet tempered, kind guy etc etc BUT HOR... utterly utterly BORING. And for some reason, absolutely no sense of humour.

How many dates can u go with a nice, GOOD, sweet tempered guy who is boring and no sense of humour??

So if it means a choice between Good and Boring, and Bad and Fascinating, gimme bad anytime lah. THe problem is with people who either really can't tell OR deliberately CHOOSE bad and fascinating but realise they can't handle it then WHINE about how it *bah* its a choice!!

fudgester SG

Can I ask.... when you do want to get married and settled down, do you want 'Good and Boring' or 'Bad and Fascinating'?

M©+square SG

Honestly?

I help them answer. : Good and fascinating. Cool

fudgester SG

Well, it's time for everyone to realise one thing: you can't have it all.

Girls had better realise that they can't always expect to get the perfect gentleman who's tall, dark and handsome and has the 5Cs.

Guys had better realise that they can't get always get the hot, sexy chiobu who's decent and has good maternal instincts.

Perhaps when we all start thinking realistically instead of idealistically, everyone will be happier.

ShrodingersCat SG

hahha I know I will go for good and interesting! Thats what I mean you see. Good ALONE is not good enough.

But if those are the only two choices I have, good and boring OR bad and interesting... (and I am assuming you are talking about extremes here) then I think I will choose the latter.

Because people are boring when they are not interested in life and what goes on around them. Because life is too long and useless for someone who just exist from day to day.. and doesn't have the imagination to maximise their time. Because I will not be able to love someone who isn't interested in living and just interested in making a living.

And if you can't love that fella, you shouldn't marry him ya? Or that makes you a bad girl.

Better be a sad wife to a bad man, than a bad wife to a good man.

ShrodingersCat SG

not true you can't have it all. Smile

there are LOADS of good and fascinating people out there. And lots of BAD and boring people too.

and it is funny how people assume
BAD girls and Bad men MUST be chio and yandao
and GOOD girls and GOOD men.. plain and ugly.
Not true either! Didn't know we're talking abt looks at all.

I think what people need to have is a realistic idea of
how GOOD people can be, and how interesting people can be Smile
if your idea of interesting and good is far out
then of course can never find interesting enough or good enough people la!

M©+square SG

exactly! I prefer to change the word BAD to 'cheeky' Wink

sbst275 SG

Nu ren bu huai, nan ren bu ai... How true is that... Laughing

tare SG

u sure u wanna noe??!! Laughing

Fatum SG

depends on which organ's answering .... the head or the heart ....

elindra SG

Too lazy to read through all the pages but just my 2 cents' worth.

I think 'bad' boys are more fun to be with, when you're dating. You don't want to marry him but you want to have fun, plus 'bad' boys are usually cool.

Then when you decide that you had enough fun and want to settle down, you want a good guy - Someone who loves and cherish you, cares for you and your family and will do anything for you to marry.

SydneyLibrarian SG

I agree with you! Mr. Green

To me, a good guy is husband material & one who shares your life values & beliefs. Who wants a bad guy around just for the good times, only to find out he deserts you during the times you need him the most... Rolling Eyes Neutral

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