Hmm.....now breath with me, stellazio.........cool down. Cool
down, okay?
Well, actually both of you have really your side of the story. I
mean he has is point of being upset of your no-show or was it
late-showing? You can't blame him, right? I mean, put yourself in
that shoes? Would you be upset if someone did exactly the same
thing to you? Well, in a way, it was lack of responsibility on your
part in not keeping the appointment.
Having said that, everyone makes mistakes, however, minor or major.
So, given, you have made one but that doesn't give him the right to
curse. To me, a really good friend embrace the negative part of me
too. I am no angel. Of course, I will carry some traits that are
not acceptable or comfortable with my friends. So, if they can
accept me that I meant no harm when behaving that way, I really do
appreciate it. Like wise, I will do the same in accepting them as
they are.
Let your friend cool down. Don't worry. Whatever you both
communicated during anger......are all rubbish. What we say, anger
words. Cannot be taken seriously one. So, don't get work up.
First of all, do you agree you are initially at fault? If you can
accept or agree, it will be easier for you to accept his outburst,
although, still I don't think he should have cursed. Now that he is
angry, nothing will get into his head. Let him cool down and you
too. And when peace is in the air, talk to him nicely that you
didn't like what he did and that you felt hurt about it. If he is a
friend, he will not do this to you (again). Because you have told
him, how you felt. Don't let him assume.
As well, you must apologize to him too. Any time, there is a
conflict, there is no one winner or loser. Both have done
something, either small or big to have cause a conflict. Just that
both have to come to terms and be open about it.
