Yeap, thanks Rhonda.......for the words of wisdom. 
While I am a Christian, I believe in this yin-yang
thing very much. A balance.......if one has too much of one
thing.......something will happen to balance it. I also a bit pang
tang, hor? 
It's the same like I feel God is fair. I have a very poor and
humble childhood. Deprived of many things.......parental love,
basic materials, finances.....but as a working adult, life got
better. With age catching on........hubby also super friendly. Like
my dad said, "siao lian pai miah, jiak lao, ho miah". He said
better this way, then "siao lian ho miah, jiak lao, pai miah."
Errrr.. teacher Cammy......pinyin correct or not? 
Anyways, contentment lah. I think and believe I have it and am and
just lead a simple life.
