Well, let me pose you this scenario :
You meet an extremely beautiful and sexy woman, and when she looks
your way, your jaw drops. You almost cannot control your drooling
and when you see her move towards you, you realise that she seems
to move in slow-motion and time seems to stand still. You realise
that she's not only drop-dead gorgeous, she's also intelligent,
gentle and oooh, alluringly feminine!
And then, she hands you her calling card and you realise that she's
actually a prostitute.
Would you still consider her to be a candidate for marriage
then?

And, OF COURSE marriage has to be broken down into 'selective
factors'! One of my wise American friends, a grandfather and a
veteran, once said, 'If only the Americans would spend more time
thinking about how to choose the right partner for marriage, there
would be less divorces in the country! Imagine - we spend more time
pondering over which car to buy, than who to marry!'
If you don't carefully consider and scrutinise your potential
marriage partners, then I would say that's being extremely
foolish.
I will not only not consider a gigolo, I will also not consider any
other man who sleeps around indiscriminately.