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a_splash SG

a pat on 275's shoulder....well done! Wink

sbst275 SG

Thank you...

My future newphew/ niece..

I scolded my brother who wants his wife to abort the baby... I told him he would be classified as a murderer.. I think aft that, he might have thought abt it..

a_splash SG

by the way how many months preggy were u then??

a_splash SG

yes, unless there are really some difficulties/prob where the child will not be rec'd good care etc....we try to minimise the need for abortion....

flyme2moon SG

I was only 7 weeks pregnant. n after visiting the gynea, he said it is too small for abortion. Asked me 2 wait another week... Crying or Very sad

Maybe I should start a new thread abt abortion? I dun think tis thread here is suitable.

flyme2moon SG

Ya, I still think I m the murderer... it is not easy to let go u know.

a_splash SG

indeed not the rite place to tok further on such a topic Laughing

but flyme2moon....u were only 7 weeks only, its not a baby yet rite? so please don't be so sad...by the way do u have children now?? or trying for one now??

sharing this with u, i lost one before....tried like mad for a third after being convinced by hubby to hv one more(my first two were easy peasy), and finally conceived, jumped for joy....i can't rem how many weeks later....on one visit to gynae,....doc announced baby's heart beat no more...had stopped growing....oh boy....i was so damn sad....couldn't believe it at all.....

seriously....u won't even know what would hv happened even if u had let it continue....so do get over it.......cos its over its over......

do not think yourself as a murderer please.....

shinta SG

a qn, why would babies stop developing? saw this somewhere too.. can't remember where...

Sad very sad de lei Sad

a_splash SG

sad indeed....and after that...every time i see the word miscarriage..i wash my face with tears.....

i asked the gynae...i think he said something like its just the nature way of getting rid of wat was not supposed to be.....guess they don't hv the scientific explanation too.....i guess its not healthy and hence cannot last......

like all those who try to console me say...'if its not meant to be, its not mean to be....don't hv to be sad...in fact should be glad lor' ...anyway its over.......

but i am glad my third child (another try after that) is a healthy, bubbly, cheerful baby...she brings lots of joy and laughter to me, hubby and my two monster.... Mr. Green

shinta SG

Originally posted by a_splash:
sad indeed....and after that...every time i see the word miscarriage..i wash my face with tears.....

i asked the gynae...i think he said something like its just the nature way of getting rid of wat was not supposed to be.....guess they don't hv the scientific explanation too.....i guess its not healthy and hence cannot last......

like all those who try to console me say...'if its not meant to be, its not mean to be....don't hv to be sad...in fact should be glad lor' ...anyway its over.......

but i am glad my third child (another try after that) is a healthy, bubbly, cheerful baby...she brings lots of joy and laughter to me, hubby and my two monster....

Laughing

flyme2moon SG

Hi a_splash, I hv started a new thread "Abortion After Effect"

sbst275 SG

So fast… Oct coming..

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