Married 21 years liao......how to condense it?
Life is a cycle lah. Dating, honeymoon period....then routine, then
married, then stale a bit, then undergo changes, then a bit more
matured, then back to honeymoon period (because "kia" (son) also
big liao). Only left these two "lau ren jia" so buddy buddy again
lah. 
How? Like that accept ("suo huo") or not? 
Anyways, met my hubby when I was only 20........still blur blur. He
was a knight in shining armour. And me? A frog in a well. So, I
have always look up to him. Actually, funny thing was I had sore
eyes that day and he offered to loan his sun glasses. He was a
friend of my best friend's b/f and I didn't know him then. So, not
sure if that sore eyes blinded me. Hee hee.....I got stuck with him
until today......25 years!!!!
After 25 years, he is still my rock. Of course we are no angels so
sure got conflicts and ups & downs. But through it all, we stay
committed to our vows and convicted to the marriage/family.
One wise guy said "big matters make small, small matters make
none". Of course need time, experience, maturity to "mo" (grind) to
this state lah.
