Will You??

BabyLover SG

hey tats wat im tinking too...
really cant stand the thot of hving strangers ard d hse.. so uncomfy..
tok anyting in english also let her hear... so no privacy...

plus the thot of her going crazy n harming d kids.. scary!
like u said, rather do more work than to hv maids...
but then pple kept telling mi to get one... so much naggings Laughing

LeftBallBigger SG

it wasnt me

really...it was wasnt me..

Laughing

InnoHippo SG

i feel great discomfort having a stranger living in my house Neutral

kops21 SG

why not, i have one that help me to take care of household chores and many more Razz

BabyLover SG

relac dun get so uptight,,,
mi not refering to u tis time Mr. Green

BabyLover SG

yah lor... n so many cases of maid stealing tings oso... how to trust Rolling Eyes

BabyLover SG

really? full time stay in hse ah??

but then u no kids.. no nid worry she trt them no gd...
then both of u always not ard...
d most she yaya n yak w frens....
but dun u find like no privacy? n u not scard she steal ur tings??

laurence82 SG

went to few people house b4

formulate the Theory of Skinny Maid

the first law states that, the bigger the house, the thinner the maid

serious!

i compared maids living in condos, with maids living in mansionette, and lastly to terraced house

sad to say, those in bigger house looks like they havent slept for days, and they are awfully thin

on the other news, my mum had to fire the one and only maid we had after she abused me and my siblings

i see no harm tho, except i got this strange urge to whack somone once in a while..... Twisted Evil

BabyLover SG

ur theory not true leh... my sis inlaw's maid came tat time average size.. now sooo... big size

hey i see abuse! wat did she do to u n ur siblings?
sianz... really dun wanna employ one leh... but feeling so pressurize... oh one ting gd abt hving a maid is u get to hv more freedom, more time to go gai gai..kekeke

observer81 SG

Actually if i look around about maid's life here in singapore.. I think they have quite good life here.. If compared to those in indonesia... Their life are much much much harder...

1. In singapore.. maids are allowed to go around on sunday... In indonesia they are locked inside the house and will most probably get scolded if go out..
2. Salary in singapore still are much higher than in indonesia. Maids here are paid between $ 200-400... in indon will be just about $ 50 a month..
3. There're rules and protection of maid treatments... in indon.. there are none... From what i read in indon newspaper..some of them either cry and report to police (if the employer treat unfairly) or some just run away from the employer's house... without taking the unpaid wages of few months.

Of course.. these are very subjective and depends on every employer's situation... But i still think maid treatment here in singapore are much much better than in indon.

But if u really have good maid.. It's really worth it to keep her working in ur family. Last time i had a maid took care of me when i was kindergarten in indonesia, was working until so many years. And now she had learned shortterm nursing and is taking care of my little cousin here. The maid is transferred and sponsored to singapore while the parents are still working in indon. Until now she has been working for 22 years + and told that she will always work in my family, as maid and child takecarer

BillyBong SG

It's usually a straight shag, no foreplay or seduction. Twisted Evil

shinta SG

when i was young, the family hired 5 maids altogether. the first was ok, got sent back cos she was pregnant. Laughing

the 2nd was the best. she taught me english

the 3rd n 4th.. i had clashes with them cos they beat my baby sis for no reason.. i was infuriated n "fought" with them with words of course

the 5th was good... but my parents got bankrupt at that time so.. bye bye Very Happy

if i had to get a maid, i'd get Filipinos.
of course, i'd rather give my whole paycheck to my mom or mom in law to take care of the kids rather than get a maid. prefer stayin with relatives than with strangers.

BabyLover SG

yes def better.. otherwise wun hv so many of them leaving hm n coming down here to work. the problem is some of them go crazy n juz start abusing kids n even a baby juz becos cries too much! over little stress or unhappy matters can resort to murder. plus all the other cases i read, its really scary.

anyway ur really lucky to hv a good maid.
guess to employ one, theres a risk to take.. n depends on ur luck...

BabyLover SG

urs is like 50 50.. Laughing
some gd some bad.. but lucky d no gd ones din do anyting too terrible.

ya...own pple always better lor.. but if really no help then tats d time u hv got no choice but to get one...

shinta SG

see how lar.. maybe dump my kids in childcare Laughing

den give my bro money to pick them home by teh time my bro come out from uni, assumin he's doin 3 years, i'm 24..

hmm cannot.. get the youngest

BabyLover SG

childcare only when bigger abt 2yrs... bb time leh Laughing

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