I personally still feel men should help their ladies if
NECCESSARY.
The key word over here is necessary. Below are the
combinations.
1) Big bag, heavy: Should help to carry
2) Big bag, light: If the lady can manage herself, then it's ok.
Key word is offer. At the end of the day, the lady will still carry
herself and will not let carry for long. Everyone is happy.
3) Small bag, heavy: This is very tricky. First, men must be
wondering what is inside the bag? Could it be a vibrator? haha.
just kidding. I am referring to those small sissy handbags, which
fit nicely under their arms. Should empty some items to lighten the
load and the lady carry herself.
4) Small bag, light: Straighforward, ladies carry
themselves.
I maybe wrong, however this is my point of view.
Do correct me if you want to. :)
Correct.
Offer help only when the bag is heavy. Otherwise, just let her
carry it. The girl might also think why the guy so kua suay
me 
