Men and Romance
Is like Vinegar and Oil
Its easier to look for guys with this kind of thing build into him
than to ask of him to "learn" these behaviours. And if you expect
it, the guys will come around and say : "Didn't you want to be
treated equally? Blah " And many things are used to justify bad
behaviour or the lack of manners.
Most men, even ang moh are equally bad. Fairy tales are fairy
tales.
But they are still holding on to arcade ideals/expectations of
women must be gentle, sweet, femine, girlie, slim and etc. Most men
cannot accept if their gf are smarter, stronger, paid more than
them. Some guys spend money on you and will feel justified to
expect more than your company. Others hope to latch onto a rich
women for his future prospect of a easy life.
Anyways, it is more common to see girls hold the door for guys and
for the guys to let doors slam into the face of the next person.
Its common to find rude behaviour in the younger generation.
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