What you have mentioned about love only applies if people have only
one love in their lives and that love is not one-sided love.
The guy with the higher earning powah can definitely
provide/buy/afford more love to his woman, compared to the rest of
the other lower income green-eyed monsters.
Guys all want the same thing from Girls ... SEX, better SEX,
more SEX, until we became their SEX Vending Machine. (SEX
On-Demand)
Guys do not look for just sex. Singapore came in
2nd last in the durex global sex survey in 2003 (96 times per
annum). If men cares only about the sex, it would make more sense
to simply visit brothels. Got variety, can live out your fantasies
etc.
Guys won't love Girls because they really want them to be happy.
And I also haven't mention the words sincerely or genuinely or
truly want them to be happy, because I know it's just BS, BS and
more BS.
The same could be said of girls.
Most indicators of love points to self-interest. You are a prime
example from your stand in this topic.
If Guys tell Girls that they like them for who they are, it
means that the Guy had some kind of kinky fantasies that he would
like to fulfill with that Girl.
It's like ... I like you because you're smart, most probably
just want you to suck his cock and allow him to spray over your
face and on your spectacles or your breasts.
It's like ... I like you because you're cool, most probably just
want to have prolong sex with you to fulfill his hot and sweaty
sexual fantasies with your screams of orgasm in the background.
Mind you! It's not screams of orgasm, they are potential screams of
torture and agony!!
It's like ... I like you because you're pretty, most probably
just want have sex with you for as long as he still finds you
pretty enough to have sex.
It's like ... I like you because you're tall, most probably had
some kind of model/elder sister fantasies and probably really have
an elder sister at home. EPIC FAILURE.
It's like ... I like you because you're mature, most probably
had some kind of auntie/mother fantasies and probably idolised or
really have an attractive auntie/mother or know some attractive
auntie/mother.
And the list goes on and on ......
These can also be a means to
assure the girl. To make her feel feminine and
desirable.
But this shows that Guys are all the same, deep down and under,
they are all the same weak, lustful, boastful and arrogant
creatures ... and they want us to have their babies!! (Pray that I
have more daughters in the future than sons)
Boys and girls both have times of
weakness. Both have pride. And both can be arrogant. The babies
share both your genetic traits.
So knowing what we girls can offer to these pathetic creatures,
why can't we measure them based on their earning powah, looks,
family background and other special features, for us to
feel better to live with our best choice among all the
choices that we can afford to have?
So what exactly do you think a
girl has to offer the guy? Only sex? Maybe then you will realise
that guys DEFINATELY do not just want sex (both sexes have libido).
True love is when a woman is willing to bear a child of the man
that she marries.
How not true can our love be if we are willing to bear
the child of the man that we are going to marry?
Guys will never think about that point because they assumed that
it is normal for Girls to bear their child and also because they
are used to take us for granted all the time.
True love is not the willingness
to bear children. True love is enabling the dreams of the other. To
improve the quality of life of the other. And as such true love is
not the restraining, the possession nor is it a question of what
he/she can offer. In your entire thread, you have suggestion that
true love comes at a price; numbers and figures. That, to me
represents an investment, a trade, mecenary exchange; definately
not true love.
Equality and True Love are something that Guys or Men
will NEVER be able to provide for us. Respect your wife/gf, Love
your wife/gf, Care and Honour your wife/gf, they can say YES to
everything but don't do it at all. Just keep providing sweet words
and promises and give free lip service for eternity.
Ask this question, can girls
provide equality? Are girls really capable of true love? The trend
seems to be that girls have more needs than guys. What do guys wan?
To quote david chapelle, 3 things; food, sex, silence, Feed me,
Fuck me, shut the fuck up. Pls notice that shut the fuck up in this
case refers to the desirable attribute of ceasing the endless
babbling and bombardment. What do women want? Almost evreything
under the sun. And women somehow has the ability to coax men into
making promises. Because our society still dictates that guys must
chase girls.
Don't believe me? Ask your man what is True Love and what is his
True Love to you and you will see his mind goes blank instantly
through his eyes. Either way, or he can only give you model answers
from textbooks or fiction examples from movies script and
storybooks that he read when he was young. But he can NEVER give
you a real example from the relationship journey that you
had enjoyed together with him.
Just say, I laughed with you, i
cried with you. And this is what i wanna do with my
life.
So if he ends up telling you about the items that he had
showered upon you as his evidence of his True Love towards you, how
wrong can it be for us to believe that True Love is indeed built
upon on a foundation of money? 
Green-eyed Monsters who have no ability to earn more or increase
their earning powah, should go ebay and auction
a PRC/Viet-Con wife for themselves.
Because these 农包 girls are just the types of real-life sex
mannequins that are unable to persuade our 城市土包 Singaporean
males to give them the love that they deserves as a female.
Does Singapore has the most men globally? Do you even know your
own kind and have the courage to speak the truth about them?
Wrong if you think the purpose of my topic is to condemn men.
Why do I need men who have high earning powah? Men who doesn't get
my point will never get the point of any females out there, they
are just simply addressing my words for words. Shame on them
for the education they had received and poor comphrension.
Why do you think girls need men to make them look feminine and
desirable? It's our nature to doll up and look our best, and it's
for us to admire and not men to admire.
Can I say the same for men? Men need girls for them to be manly,
else they are a bunch of wussy, whiny ah-kuahs deep inside?
If you haven't been in a relationship before, then I'm not
surprised when you don't know what women can offer men other than
just our body for sex alone. How old are you anyway??
My goodness, you need True Love to enable your dreams. That is
pathetic! And how can your True Love improve your quality of life?
Please don't tell me it is done through sex and orgasm that I will
be lifted into realm beyond my intense relieve.
And you haven't share your perspective of True Love yet. Not
confident enough to share your textbook answers or no experience to
share at all?
Yes, girls are capable of providing True Love and equality
(giving in to you guys). Ask all girls and men who had been in a
relationship before and they can give you the figures that you are
after.
You are welcome to sit and wait for girls to go after you. And
there's nothing wrong with it. Nobody will tell you what you are
doing is wrong. But if you do see the girl of your desire, I would
also expect you to sit down and watch how she became the possession
of another guy. Society does not dictates that Men must go after
Women, but I believed this rule must be built into all Men cos no
matter how they want to argue about it and whine like a kid and
stomps on the ground with his tantrums, ultimately they will
quietly do what they are supposed to do and obediently go after the
girls of their dreams to become a hypocrite.
I cried and laughed with Men who are more deserving of my time
than you. That's what I would've told you if you knew me.
