Try to accept what it's to you. Without your own views, without
siding anything. There is nothing to be achieve, it's there in
everyone state of mind for what you are looking for.
The sun does not hide away. It's the clouds that blocks you from
the sun. Remember the sun is always there shining for you. Too
often we play out own movie, directing what's right &
wrong.
It ourselves needs to clear up our own unacceptance of
things/issues & the behaviour of always inputting our own views
that blind us.
Even you can do it, does not means you can always do
you. 
Now that's the CORRECT/RIGHT view 
Uh, Sorry for being "left".
