you are making a mockery out of the marriage pledge...
"do you understand and accept this responsibility, and do you
promise to do your very best each day to create a loving, healthy,
and happy marriage?"
"The quality of your marriage will reflect what you put into
nurturing this relationship. You have the opportunity to go forward
from this day to create a faithful, kind, and tender relationship.
We bless you this day. It is up to you to keep the blessings
flowing each and every day of your lives together. We wish for you
the wisdom, compassion, and constancy to create a peaceful
sanctuary in which you can both grow in love"