我明白。The litmus test is whether u want your children to be taxi
drivers. Or what will be ur reaction if ur daughter dates a
TD.
Ppl look down on TDs. It's an Asian culture and a fact. We don't
have to deny it. But we need not be affected by it
either.
About 40 years ago, when I my sister bring her BF home and tell
my parent that they are going to marriage.
My parent go to the man Kampong (Geyland Lor 25) to find out
about him, the search result is super negative.
BUT what my mum told my sister, 你选的路,是好是坏,你自己走下去。
You chose your own course, good or bad, you go on.
and my father told my Bro In Law, 好好疼我女儿,不然我不会放过你。
30+ years pass, he still.so love my sister.
So if one day, my girl BF is a TD, I will do the same thing.