Can, but reject nicely lah, paxs will understand.
Sorry brother, I am the sole breadwinner of my family, if you
transmit to me, I will have to stay at home for few weeks, like
this, I will lose money, and I got, 2 granparents, 2 parents, 2
wivies, 5 childrens + 1 maid to take care and 2 old parent in laws
to take care...