As for pool, I can only said one thing that happen to all of us
once in a lifetime, no matter you are rich, poor, thin or fat.
He is going thru a mid life crisis, where life had arrived into
a few cross roads for him to choose, and when he looks back on his
past life, he felt very let down and take it as a failure, for he
cannot even hold his forum, so to speak.
As bravery and as a fighter he alway is, he is drained and can
be in desperation for help but yet, those atas egos and prides
cannot be compromised, therefore, in a state of depression and mid
life, he find it very difficult to carry on. Well, he can alway
contact me if needed.
As for pressure and stress, he is still very juvenile to it, and
that is why he will throw all thing out of the picture once he
cannot handle it. Out of cdg, out of his forum and out of
Singapore, but that is not the solution in life, in life, you have
to face it hard on, but because of his mentality and again ego, he
cannot accept failure or a step back in life.
For me, he needs to change, and we should help and support him,
as I said earlier, friends is easy to make, but to make enemy to
become friends again, that will be our best friends.
Bowah you wasting your time lah. You think he will listen to
you? He don't even respect you. Basically he ignore you or delete
your posts that highlight his faults.
You think he will change because you say so?
I use to think he was just a cyber warrior like so many i've
seen, but after being contacted, I'm not so sure anymore.
I cannot fully say he is a bad or crooked person, or a wolf in
sheep's clothing as my dealings all all online. But others who know
him better have said some things, that cause me to think also.
Still I have no real care abt him, I just listen advise and move
on with my life. If he really did what I've been told then he
surely will get it back in some form. People here like to say
karma. I don't really believe in karma, but I do believe in
justice. Even if justice in Singapore is not perfect, there is
still some form of justice here.
