In response to fudgester, I can see that you are a person who knows
very well what you want to do for your life. And you seems to have
a pretty good life with not much major setbacks. But you have to
realised that not everyone is like you who know what they want to
do in life. Not everyone know what they want to do in life until
they grew mature and understand more about life. I received many
major setbacks in life that stop my life plan or even forces me to
take another route. You maybe blessed with good friends and family
who are able to give you proper advices to aid you in your life
plan. I'll say GOOD FOR YOU!!!! But you must spare a thought for
others too. Never assume everyone is like you ok? Nevertheless,
thanks for your post and comments.
To Wish: Thanks for your advice. I do not have money for oversea
universities so i guess that is out of the option. You are right on
the point that i didn know much about JC during my secondary school
life. If i knew i'll had chosen the right subjects.
In general, I am happy for all the replies. Thank you guys. For
me, I am a student who worked my way up slowly from pri to jc in my
education life. I don't come from a very rich family and I am not a
very bright student from the start. My family didn't give me much
advice on education in terms of subject combinations. I got to walk
in the dark to feel my way around, learning every step through pain
and hardship. But I never complain. I am not afraid of failure and
i'm willing to learn. Just to say again. This topic that i started
is NOT A CHANNEL to complain about my failure in jc. It's just to
hear from the crowd on what is the next best route to take. I
appreciated everyone's efforts in contributing. Thanks.
Sigh.... you think I had it all easy? I can go into a long
melodramatic story about how my family fell into hard times when I
was in both secondary and JC. But I don't want to bore you, and
this ain't about me, anyway.
You think I had a clear idea of what to do? No, I didn't. Back
in JC I was vacillating between either Mass Comm or Engin in uni.
And no one ever really told me on what I should do and what
subjects to take. But I knew that I should at least look a bit
further ahead and to find out how to keep my options open.
It's all about personal initiative. Not everything can
be taught to you or spoonfed to you. You yourself have to take
charge on how to go on with your life.
Anyway, bear in mind what I said: from this point on, whatever
it is that you want to do, you should at least plan ahead a little.
Never mind if you don't know what your final destination is; very
few people do, anyway. I didn't, and I still don't. Rather, it is
all about making sure you have enough open doors in front of
you.
In the end, it was your total lack of planning that did you in,
and you should seek to at least plan such that your options remain
open.
So go forth and start planning.