i just got back from studying abroad, living away from family
for 4 years. now, back with parents. not good.
by being fortunate enough to study abroad, i really felt the
difference it makes in "moving out" in terms of how it let me
develop. have to cook my own, laundry my own, everything my own
although of course got some money back up from home. i'm not super
independent, but it has helped.
and, i don't want to get married until maybe 35 when i establish
my career.
So, all this means. LIVE WITH PARENTS UNTIL 35+ when get
married.
and even after marriage, i have to live with them still right?
because have to take care of them. can't send them to old folks
home.
So....seriously, W..T...F...
i know i have a duty to my parents, they have worked hard for
me. but, this is SERIOUS impositions on my life man. I am so
considering getting married in the next 3 years just to have some
excuse of independence...and i'm scared if i pursue my idea of not
marrying early, i'll be DOOMED to appear as this old man still
living with parents...girls will say...eee...
And...i haven't even talked about MONEY issues yet. even want to
move out, not so easy.
W
T
F