I'm lazy to log onto there to post comments, but to any
girls who share similar views, i wanna ask you a few questions,
1) Take a look into the mirror, do you think you are among the
top 10% in terms of skin condition, hair, look, character, body
smell, gracefulness, body shape, sexyness or watever that appeals
to man? If not, why are you under the illusion that man who are
among the top will choose you as their gf? It's a
realistic world out that, just like it's normal for girls to
choose guys with high income, it's definitely normal for guys
who have a higher income to set a high standards for their
gf, especially since girls will be swarming over him
given his status.
2) Of course you can dream that there'll be a guy who fits into
all your criteria and just happens to love you only, but what are
the chances? Do some simple calculation and tell yourself what is
the chances of a guy who happens to be rich and innocent, devoted
(in another words, those guys who are so frequently shown in
taiwanese/korean/japanese idol dramas), wat are the chances of them
existing in real life and you happen to be the girl lead? its
damned low, in fact, you have a much higher chance of getting
cancer, accident if you compare the odds.
You're just a normal girl living a normal life in a small
country, you're not some supermodel, celebrity, royal family heir
etc
Yup, it's okay to have a cinderalla dream once in a while,
but once the dream is over you have to WAKE UP.
I'm just being realistic.
1) There are many girls out there that falls into the 10%
category, and good luck with your imaginations regarding
those Top whatever SG Guys are said to be even worth anything
or close to being desirable. That's the problem, you SG guys enjoys
overrating yourself until you all have to end up becoming
GAYS.
2) How many ideal guys do you think a girl needs? We don't think
like you shameless SG guys, and imagined ourselves having alot of
choices at our disposal. One good man is all we need.
Don't keep telling us girls that we're normal and low-classed or
anything below your sub-standard levels.
Praise a girl and compliment her honestly if you are interested
in her. And let her know that you have noticed her by praising her
and complimenting her sincerely.
You can continue to be realistic and I don't even bother myself
to tell you how to find love for yourself.
Love itself is unrealistic, and you need to be unrealistic to be
ready to find love in your lives.
But for you, please continue to be realistic because you are not
ready to fall deep in love or even for anyone to like you.
