To be honest, asking someone for phone number and a
date.......is not considered "pervert"
At most, you can say he is irritating or pushy........but not
pervert.......there is nothing wrong with doing that.....
And as for the Chester Lim........I would say....just take it as
a learning experience.....Anyways as long as the date itself was
pleasant, why not. Just consider it a nice 100 dollar lunch.