Hi, my friend have problem with a girl. My friend is studying in
oversea last year together with that girl. His personality is very
quiet, seldom talk and have only two friends and most of the time,
he is alone, we can call him a loner. He is not bad in looking as
he said that one of his classmate said he is handsome and he is a
Chinese guy. He notice a girl sometimes keep looking at him and she
is from China. He did not notice her looking at him but only seen
her looking at him once. She is the same class as him in a few
lessons.
The first time he noticed her looking at him was when two girls
made fun of him, she looked at him. The second time is he saw her
looking at him by the computer lab's window mirror when they are
having computer lesson. He said that when he look at her, he ignore
and do his work, the girl look down and do her work as well. After
months, my friend did not notice her that if she looks at him
because he did not bother until there is another time, which is in
the library, she was looking at him and he look at her and look
down, she also look down too. He started to think that he find this
girl odd, she keep on looking at him, never smile and just stare at
him.
Later, he sit with his friend, he and his friend were laughing
because his friend wrote something funny and they both laugh loud
in class. The girl look at him and whisper to her friend something,
her friend look and whisper back and they both laugh. My friend
started to notice her a lots and he caught her staring at him
sometimes when she is alone and in the class sometimes. When she is
with her friend, she seldom stare at him, just only once or twice,
but when he look at her, her friend look at him and she is like
whispering to her friend something and look down while her friend
look at him.
When my friend cross the traffic road to his home, that girl sit
at the opposite side of the bus stop and stare at him, most of the
time when she is alone. Outside the math and computer class, she
sit there alone, waiting for the lecture, my friend walk pass and
she stare at him while my friend standing there waiting for the
lecture to come. When we walk into the classroom, she use the glass
mirror in outside the computer class and look at him. When he look
at her in the glass mirror, she quickly look away.
When he and the girl walk pass outside the classroom such as
going to the toilet or along the corridor, she keep looking down,
never look at him. She just say hi or smile to the other of his
classmate who walk pass her except him and a few people who are not
close to her. There was one time, my friend was sitting outside
waiting for the International Officer to finish their meeting, he
just walk around. Unfortunately, the girl and her friend were
sitting there. My friend walk to the office for a while then walk
away. The girl said to her friend "I notice this person is always
following me." in chinese. My friend heard that she said that to
her friend. That girl is over sensitive, my friend is just only
going to the office and she said that. She is weird, actually my
friend didn't even follow her, just waiting outside the office
walking around because of boresome, plus that girl sometimes keep
staring at him and he wants to try and find out why.
During graduation day, when his name is called out to collect his
certificate, he walked his way towards the stage and the girl turn
behind and look at him. Almost everyone siting around her were
looking down except her, she keep on looking at him. After the
graduation, the teacher offer foods for them and they had to line
up. He walk to line up and the girl also walk to the line up at the
same time and she look at him again. My friend thought that he cut
her line and he smile and instead putting a gesture to let her line
up first, she smile back. Her friend look at him and tell her
what's wrong and she said nothing while smiling. After a few days
pass which is their exam, she never look at him anymore.
He told me that one of his friend told him that she got boyfriend
already, and also in her facebook, she add almost every classmates
except him (my friend) and a handful of students who are not really
close to her. His friend told him that in her relationship status,
she never put her relationship status. It is quite confusing about
her action towards him.
What I can say is maybe she find him weird, in personality as he is
a loner, seldom talk in class or maybe maybe she caught him looking
at her but it was her who start looking at him. It is confusing,
but since she did not smile at him while starring at him, I can say
that maybe she finds him weird in his personality or maybe he is
good looking and is interested in him? Not sure, confusing. What
would be your thoughts?
