Is luv relationships a 'Want' or a 'Need'??

last SG · 2005-07-14T17:02:24+00:00

With want, there will b expectations. It is desired, not in desperation . Eg. Want a gf/relationship but not juz with any other gal. Until "she" comes along,...

carpe diem jur SG

pals, is being a relationship a ‘want’ or a ‘need’?? why?

stellazio SG

probaly a want to some people and a need to others?cause there are lonely people who wants a companion but will be able to live on without one whereas some feels that they can’t live without a companion.i’m just talking crap..exams stress..

carpe diem jur SG

hahar !! mi also project stress... dats why posted some strange questions... i'm wondering, how can a relationship become a 'need'??

dibilo SG

probably a 'Love'?

carpe diem jur SG

yesh dats why i'm asking... is love a want or a need??

I_am_PeTe_Parker SG

It starts as a 'need'. We are all humans and it is part of our needs. Then we make a conscoius choice of whether we 'want' to go into a relationship. Just my personal take on the matter.

I need, do you want Mr. Green Laughing

carpe diem jur SG

why is it a need in the beginning??

dibilo SG

lol... hmmm depends... love is when u 'want' to be with someone and 'want' to share the good/bad things in life with.

love can also be a need when u love someone so much that you can't live w/o him/her... now it becomes a need.

too many variables and there is no answer for this. most likely a mixture of both.

leddy SG

i want to fck I need to fck, what is the difference?

carpe diem jur SG

for example, i want to eat, i need to eat... the diff is, u need to eat to survive.... but u want to eat not becoz u are hungry or dying of hunger...

the fact is, we dun need f*ck to survive... neither do we need love to survive... how can it become a NEED ??? tel mi, people !!!

pinkygal76 SG

For some they just Need to f*ck and f*ck and f*ck........ sigh..... pyschologically need ... Cool ..
but man no need to luv to f*ck rite? Crying or Very sad

alexkusu SG

hmm…trick question issit? well, sumtime the relationship can be “I need sex” or “I want sex” kinda thing.

I_am_PeTe_Parker SG

Biological I suppose. The bees do it, the birds do it, we all do it... Mr. Green

carpe diem jur SG

hmm... makes sense... is either u love to f*ck or u dun.. how can NEED TO LOVE TO F*CK...?? hahar !!

carpe diem jur SG

so now sex bacame an issue with love relationship already !!

ok, so, wat if, u enjoyed sex with a woman very much, like the best sex partner u ever had, will u love her becoz u oni love having sex with her??

carpe diem jur SG

dan, if u have a love realtionship now (since i dunno u haf anot, so i put it as "if"), does it help u in achieving ur goals in life?? or does it improve ur life?? in other words, benefit u anot??

alexkusu SG

Personally….no. I prefer for her to have something on the inside. No point having a person who can give good sex but is dumb, etc etc. Later my sex drive is gone..then what happen? She also useless rite?

pinkygal76 SG

love can be veri motivational one Razz ......

LOVE can work WONDERS my frenz!!! Wink

I_am_PeTe_Parker SG

...the very reason I said biological and refrained from using that three letter word Mr. Green

It is a chemical process that goes on in our body that makes us attract one another. U love her and that why u want to have sex with her. U don't love her because u love having sex with her. Do you see a difference?

carpe diem jur SG

i feel so numb that i cant feel anything anymore... so i start to question myself, do i need love anot?? if is juz a want, dan i dun haf to get involve anymore... another ques is, is it wasting tym anot...?? u understand wat i'm trying to say?