Receiving end of love declaration

Gackt247 SG

How would u feel n react to it? I juz got one ytd from a fren of mine.

Feel free to air ur views n experiences. Wink

Lavendin SG

nobody does that to lav yet, so no experience to share

Mr. Green

Nelstar SG

To receive is flattering.

But hard to tell someone you're not interested.

Wink

Gackt247 SG

Agree..

Flattering, yes. Ego-boosting, i must concur.

N it's difficult to reject sb coz u might lose a fren. Furthermore, i do know the bitter feeling of rejection i dun wish to inflict the same pain on others.

I juz try to avoid her question when she wanted to know whether i liked her.

Lavendin SG

usually it is girls tell the guys lor, guys have to be strong

Mr. Green

Gackt247 SG

Since when was tt the case. Guys do reject girls de wor.

Lavendin SG

ok change to only handsome guys or pretty gals get to do the rejecting

Mr. Green

dont tell me wrong again, ok i gave up

Gackt247 SG

Not necessary have to be good-looking mah. There are rare cases where love is indeed blind.

Lavendin SG

then it shd be real true love, so envy them hor

Mr. Green

stellazio SG

Haa so far,received 4 times,rejected four.one by sms,the rest since they either used letters or by fren,i did the same way back.

Gackt247 SG

How did u go abt ur rejection?

stellazio SG

erm those by letters or thru frens,i made it clear the same way back la.no face to face contact easy ma..lol..the sms one.i noe i dun like her,so i said gif me one month or wad la,see whether got chemistry for feelings to build although i noe i don’t.den the magical words lohz,partners we are not meant to,frens we shall be

Gackt247 SG

Tt's pretty alright. Some pple can be harsh in their rejection towards others.

stellazio SG

I don’t dare to be harsh,if not i wun even bother to give 1month trial period.lol.i mean what you do unto others,others will do unto you,u dun wan ppl reject u harshly,dun do it den no matter the circumstances.its a human heart afterall.

Gackt247 SG

Yep.. i do know the harsh realities of this game we call love. Juz as much as i dun like to be hurt, i do not wish do the same on others as well. I rather hurt myself physically den to let others endure emotional pain, which in my opinion is alot more excruciating.

carpe diem jur SG

hmmm... i would try to remain in platonic friendship dan to tek a step forward to try workin things out... i dun wish to hurt anyonewhether is it intentionally or unintentionally, not to mention fear of losing a person i like/love... no matter how hard u try, u always hurt the person u wan to protect most.... nothing last forever, not even the best things...

sometimes its better to remain the way it is dan to get involved and turned out bad in the end... anything more dan friendship makes things very complicated... love hurts, but friendship hurts more when lost through love...

if some things are better left unsaid, then maybe they too are better left undone... right??

carpe diem jur SG

y not be more straight forward?? sometimes its the things dat u didnt say hurt the most... she might mistaken that u liked her too but u are afraid to approach... better be frank... though it hurts, but doesnt drag...

carpe diem jur SG

I think we are suppose to be with the person we'r opposite with, that way two people won't make the same mistake.... hahar !! Mr. Green