good to be protective.... but over protective doesnt mean that u
wont get hurt... u are afraid of back stabbing, mistreat,
deceiving, fake, lies, disagreements, misunderstanding, etc...come
to think of it, its becoz of all these people around that makes u
stronger isnt it??
no need to be afraid of gossips or whatsoever.... unless u are also
a gossip-er thats why u need to be afraid of gossips... its a
mirror image ger...
everyone sees things in a different perspective, u choose how u
what u want to be... if u choose to feel insecure, then u are
insecure~!! dont hold expectations for anything... if u want to
tell a person a secret, be prepared that one day this person will
disclose it... dont expect people to keep secrets, otherwise, dont
say loh.... thats why i said when u dont hold expectations, u'll
not feel so much disappointment and anger~!! thus, if u dont hold
expectations, u will not assume also loh.... right??
juz stay simple lah... choose what u want to be... ur life is like
a movie, u choose which part u want to edit, and u choose which
part u want to participate in.... for good or bad, its ur movie, u
decide for urself if editing a certain part will affect the ending
of ur movie anot....
dont think so much lah.... 
