Hi Heng,
Just to answer Your Qn
1) I am a postop woman, now living in a fully female body. The only
regret is that I Cant get pegnant as i no ovaries.
2) For Qn 2, Maybe you can go to Nanyang Girl High forum. There is
a topic on Introduction To Me. There describe how i decided to be a
woman.
3) Yah i had to go through psychatric evaluations and assessments.
These assessments are very through and difficult to explain to u
all as it has many terms. But i will list down briefly. Actually
some transgendered do not bother to look for psychologists for
assessment as Thailand hospital do not chech whether if the doctor
accept or not. They just give u the op when u say u want it. These
patients will mostly regret when "she" found out that she is not
suitable and suffer from depression. Maybe they will commit
suicide. There are cases like that.
For Me, i went through many session of psychatric evaluations and
assessments and the doctor had given me the "green light" to do the
operation. Therfore, I went to Thailand to do the op when I am
21
3) I always want to avoid these decision by depending on the
psychological assessment. As I know that maybe one's feeling can
tell whether u want to make these decision.I really think a lot
before making the decision like financial, the acceptance by
friends, family, etc. I was upset during my secondary days. I saw
myself weird in the male school uniform and when i started to wear
girls clothing, I would feel myself beautiful and I would put on
make up. Maybe u will ask me why not be a crossdresser. But I can
tell U...Dat time, I aspire to be a woman. In Secondary days, I am
obstacised by friends as they think that I am a ah Kwa as I always
behaved and talked like a female. Maybe all these factor lead to my
decision. Anyway hor, If some ppl are confused abt their gender, U
can go consult ppsychologist. It is rather effective. It also help
in decisions making.
4) Now, my parents accepted me but it took a long time for them to
accept. As I think they will say last time I born U a male body and
can carry family line and now u are a female.
Friends, Some doesnt accept me. I am glad that some good friends
accepted me and they know why I wanted to become a female. The
society in general in govt sense does not recognised. But of cos, i
am allowed to change gender in IRC. As now I am a fully female, I
can walk on the street with woman's clothing and they would not
look at me in disdain. The only giveaways is my adam apple. The
only time is when i get disdain is when I am during Transition
period. That is during pre-op period.
If u want to know more abt other things, u can continue to write on
the forum, Nanyang Girls High
