the one you are with

cindtan29 SG

Ah twenty,

shld u really dun wan or feel that u dun want to break others than....y not....try to fall in love with someone before rushing for a relationship rite....who knows the rite one is not far away or just across the road and Not those that r around u leh ....... Wink

Ah cind

bratpig SG

yes...love someone before you enter into any relationship... Wink dont just try try...this is not a market Laughing

twenty47 SG

Thanks for all the advice. You guys definitely helped me think clearer. My heartfelt gratitude.

progene SG

Rolling Eyes

bratpig SG

simi? Mr. Green

dcx SG

For a moment, i saw “Twenty” as “Tweety”...

deathscythe99 SG

*pokes*

bratpig SG

tweety should go with

progene SG

I thought I saw a tweety bird....

I did!! I did!!

I did saw a tweety bird!!!

Razz

cindtan29 SG

hee.....i like this!!!! YEAH! Razz

bratpig SG

should be p u s s y cat la Laughing

stupid...cannot spell p u s s y

varatare SG

Hi Twenty47

I have something which I want you to consider very carefully. I fully agree that you shallnt come in between and break up a relationship. Which of course mean you have to suffer.

But, PLEASE READ THIS VREY CAREFULLY, you have the potential to make four people suffer instead of one. You, your going to be gf, your 1st gf and her bf.

So before you going to accept anyone's love, I hope you can at least pour away some of your old love and make some room for your new love.

Although it is common to say that it is happiness to be loved then love. But dont just let the other party to bring happiness to you, give her some too.

Regards

cindtan29 SG

hmmm.....very cheem leh....but certainly worth to consider ...........thanks Wink

varatare SG

Yuo are most welcome. Smile

bratpig SG

but hor...the story is like that leh:

Ah twenty likes gal A, who already has a bf, B. then along came C, who shows interest in Ah twenty.

So hor, none of them are his gf yet.

varatare SG

Hi bratpig

I understand and know the story. Now maybe let me show you how it is possible to have 4 people suffering.

Ah twenty get C to be his gf but still like A. He stay in touch with A and B dont like and could possible misundertsand A and Ah Twenty relationship. A not happy as B dont trust her. Ah Twenty will not happy because he though he is the main reason for their misunderstanding. C will also sad if she find out she is just use to replace A.

I know this sound complex and maybe not possible. But you do understand that when relationship is involved, it is always complex (could be even more complex then what I just stated) and anything is possible.

A and B are already together and I am not really worry for them, I more for worry for C. If Ah twenty is to accept her, I hope he do it because he do love her, not because he want to use C as a replacement for A. Which I can say no gal will like that.

Regards

bratpig SG

oic...sorry....i was confused why you assumed that twenty has got gf just now Razz Mr. Green

progene SG

*Yawn*

So long....lazy to read..can any1 summarise anot? Razz

dcx SG

me summarize...let's see...who wanna be the male lead, female??

dcx SG

hMz...i think i understand liaoz....

1) The girl you've feelings for has a bf now, however, may i ask you that is she the 1st girl you had feeling for before?

2) The girl you had feelings for --- Does she has feelings for you? If yes, ask urself, y she ended with her current bf? That's to say, so what if you had feelings for her...is the relationship between n her going to work out?

3) The "xtra" girl that appeared out which you assumed she likes you--- ok~ Fine...let's assume taht she likes you...your main problem now is whether you shld accept her as you're afraid that it might be unfair to her....
>> a) Since yuo know that you still can't forget abt the 1st girl you had feelings for, then juz be friends with the "xtra" girl, be friends onli...go out makan, see movies, walk walk..lim kopi..wateva...by then you shld know whether if she's really what you wan or not...

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