I'm a girl just graduated and am currently at my first job
in a small firm.
2 months ago, my 40 year old guy colleague and I was tasked on a
job during office hours. While on our way from the company to the
mrt, he told me he left something at his house and he asked if
I want to follow him to get it, and not knowing what else to say, I
agreed, so we walked over to his nearby house. On reaching and
entering, I realise his house was empty, but by then he already
closed the door. Well...what happens in an empty house with only a
guy and girl? I was molested but it didnt reach to rape because I
stopped him in time. I don't want to describe the details. He
finally let me out, but I was shocked and didnt know what to
do.
I told my boss, I reported to the police. That guy is still
working here, because the boss lacks manpower and tells me to
forgive and forget, and for the police, whenever I call
back to the police for updates, they say they are still
investigating. Actually after the incident, that guy disappeared to
Dubai and he just came back to work last week. I am still
traumatized by that incident, and I hate that guy.
My question is, what should I do? I am currently applying for
jobs and hoping to get a new job soon but it's still taking forever
and I do not know if I should just stop hating him or just quit the
job athough I'll be unemployed...I feel depressed seeing him
everyday but I am ok if I don't see him.
And I posted here because the guy and I are both Muslims, but
isn't what he did in Muslim law wrong too? Why is he still alive?
Is there any other place I can get help? I just feel so
stupid right now.