No doubt bro, its purely bdsm. BDSM is not only about pain and
sufferings, it is all about letting oneselves into the trust of
his/her partner. Here by restraining, you are ensuring ur partner
to be totally under your domination. Bondage in itself has a magic
of sensual pleasure
Do u pinch or slap as u continue doing oral jobs, i liked ur play
wid the vibrator, cool :)
No pinching or slapping for some of them :-) I test and
gauge according to what each likes or are able to take. So
some who are aroused when they get pinched like in their nips then
I oblige, but always careful not to injure or leave marks ... I
personally think that that would be excessive and that also means
that that will be caterring to my own satisfaction ... I am not
sadist ...but my intention is to bring the lady to a much higher
level of pleasure which she would otherwise nto been able to
achieve ... so focus is on what can make her more pleasured
:-) Care to share your own experiences? :-)